I am on a saving money kick today, and am checking out frugal type web sites. You are benefiting from this in two ways: 1. You do not have to do the searches yourself, and 2. You and I can learn more ways to live frugally in these leaner times.

Thefamilyhomestead.com is another great resource, though it, too, is not maintained by a single mother. I promise that, if you check out the site, you will find some useful information.

The Homestead Kitchen offers up an array of topics, from making your own bread to menu planning, and it even has a section on the health problems concerning cookware and the advantages of using cast iron cookware. And, if you keep scrolling down, you will learn a lot more. I am particularly interested in the cooking with beans section, that explains how to cook dried beans and freeze them to use like canned beans in recipes. This will be very helpful to me this winter.

The Homemaking and Home Management section also offers up a great deal of helpful information, from keeping your child’s bedroom organized  to clutter control to making homemade household cleaners.

You will find other sections as well: Crafts, gardening, homesteading, sewing, homeschooling and herbs, to name a few.

One thing that I would like to mention. Some of the sites that I come across are religious based, others are not. I do not read the sites for the religious overtones. I read them for the good, frugal, time-saving tips.

Happy reading!

Shannon

So, why do I believe a housewives’ web site would be of great use to a single mother? Money savings, of course!

Hillbillyhousewife.com is a great place for any mother to go to learn how to save money on the kitchen. Susanne offers up a multitude of recipes that will help us to stretch our budgets put our money where it is needed more.

The sites even offers up recipes for ‘convenience’ foods. These recipes could prove to be especially useful to the single mother, because we all know how much our children love those foods when purchased at the grocery store. These would also be helpful when you have a teenager who begins, or cooks, dinner before you get home from work or school.

Besides convenience foods, other sections include recipes for the holidays, snacks, main meals, breakfast and a lot more. It would be well worth your time to check out this site.

Hillbillyhousewife.com also has many useful articles, from Turning Leftovers into Dinner and Lunchbox Basics, to Frugal Breakfast Foods and Affordable Herbs; Dry Them Yourself.

There are even two very helpful sections on the site titled: $45.00 Emergency Menu and $70.00 Low Cost Menu.

I hope that you all enjoy the site as much as I did.

Shannon

Simple Pleasures for the Single Mom

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November 18, 2008 | Leave a Comment

What things do you do for yourself? How do you pamper yourself?

There are a few things that I do for myself that may not typically be considered pampering, but they work for me. After all, the best way to pamper yourself is to do what you enjoy.

Here are some of my simple, pampering pleasures:

  • Take a cup of hot tea or cocoa outside in the evening and watch the night sky.
  • Bring a camera with me on a walk, to snap photographs of what interests me.
  • Create a handmade card for a friend.
  • Scrap a page in one of the scrapbooks.
  • Hide from the world and read or write.
  • Make a journal entry.
  • Watch nature.
  • Watch my kittens play.
  • Bake or cook something new.

So, what are your simple pleasures? Things that don’t take much money, but have a satisfying or relaxing effect on you.

Shannon

Thanksgiving Crafts for Adults

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November 17, 2008 | 1 Comment

I believe that crafting is a lot of fun. I don’t have any specific patterns or plans for you in this post, just some ideas. It can be relaxing to work on something crafty in the evenings, and you may even decide that you like a way of crafting enough to create a hobby from it. If you are already a crafter of some type, this list will likely give you a few ideas.

Scrabooking/Cardmaking:

  • You can create your own Thanksgiving cards for friends and family. If you use the cards as place cards at your Thanksgiving table, then you will not need to invest in or make envelopes.
  • You can make chargers for your place settings, and coasters for the glasses.
  • You can make paper doilies to put under decorative bowls.
  • Another place card ides is to make bookmarks, or something similar, on which guests can list what they are thankful for.
  • You can create a Tree of Thanksto hang on the wall each November. Each year, you will make new leaves for the tree. You could also make a tree in miniature for a scrapbook page decoration in a layout for the lists each year.

Beaders:

  • Create different Thanksgiving themed beaded pins to put into Thanksgiving cards.

Plastic Canvas Creators”

  • You could create place card holders.
  • Wine glass jewelry would be a great addition to an elegant table.
  • Coasters would also work.

Happy Crafting!!!

Shannon

Thanksgiving Crafts for Young Children

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November 13, 2008 | Leave a Comment

I took some time to gather some links for a blog post to give you some ideas of what you and your younger children can do to make your Thanksgiving a little more memorable. Here is some of what I came up with:

  • Kaboosehas a few crafts that your child may be interested in, including a turkey placecard holders.
  • Enchanted Learning has an array of project for children in grades K-3.
  • DLTK has many activities for children.

Children love to know that they care contributors to the family, so they feel a special sense of pride when their creations are displayed at special family events and holidays. Here are some other simple ideas for you to consider for your children. They can:

  • Make placemats by ironing autumn leaves between two sheets of wax paper.
  • They can also make coasters the same way.
  • In a cornucopia or a basket, children can place homemade leaves and fresh fruits to use as a centerpiece from the table. They could even add a some acorns an a pinecone or two.
  • Small pinecones make great placecard holders.
  • They can make chargers to place under plates from construction paper.

Shannon

Helpful Information for the Single Parent

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November 13, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Here are some articles from Living the Low-Income Life that may be useful to you. They are originally from my Low-Income site, so they may seem dated. However, the concepts themselves still apply. I am closing the site. The blog above gets a lot more traffic than the site does, and I will save money if I use the blog instead.

Furthering Our Educations

Job or Career (Or, a vote for the WAHM. Originally written for the two-parent home, but would be useful to a single mother contemplating working from home as well.)

Ways to Earn Extra Money

Quick Financial Tips

Fuel Assistance and Morals

Happy reading.

Shannon

Thanksgiving Community Service as a Family

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November 11, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Teaching your children to support their communities can be hard for the single mother. With work and errands, as well as taking care of our children and homes, there does not seem to be a lot of time left over for this important aspect of learning and teaching. However, there are things that you can do to teach your children to have a sense of community.

There are a couple of different ways in which your family can do some community service in your area. One way costs a some money, the second won’t really cost you much more than what you will be spending on your own meal.

1.

Why not create one or two boxes of food for a needy family or two in your area. Maybe you know another single mother who is down on her luck, or an elderly couple who are barely making ends meet. You can buy a small turkey, a couple of cans of vegetables, stuffing, some potatoes, gravy and some cranberry sauce. You can also bake them a loaf or two of bread, as well as a pie.

Your extended family and friends may even be willing to pitch in some money or their baking talents.

Even if they have the components of the holiday meal on hand already, they will be able to use non-perishables at another holiday, such as Christmas. Also, pies and breads can be frozen for future use. You could include instructions for freezing these items just in case.

You could deliver these in person. To remain anonymous, set them on their porch just before you know that they will be leaving or arriving back at home.

2.

Invite the other single mother’s family, or the elderly couple,  to your home to join in on the Thanksgiving festivities.

Having a sense of community is very important for children and adults alike.

Shannon

The $100.00 Holiday Gift Challenge

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November 11, 2008 | Leave a Comment

I don’t know about your family, but mine will be having a very hard time this winter. I’m not sure that I will even be able to do much for Christmas. In all honesty, I’m not sure that I will have even $100.00to spend.

I know that Thanksgiving sisn’t even over yet, but I thought that I would pass along this information, in case anyone was interested.

Katy, over at The Non-Consumer Advocate, is issuing a challenge for everyone. Do you think that you can acquire everyone’s holiday gifts for $100.00 or less.

With the economy the way that it is, I believe that we will be trying to get as far below that as we can - in our household.

Please visit her site at http://thenonconsumeradvocate.wordpress.com/2008/10/25/the-100-holiday-gift-challenge/ for more information.

Shannon

Thanksgiving Crafts for Teens

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November 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Along with cooking a Thanksgiving meal, teenagers can also create many things for the holiday. Are you a family who gives Thanksgiving cards and or small gifts to friends and family at this time of the year? Here are some ideas to get your teenager involved in the Thanksgiving preparations.

  • About.com has a great card pattern.
  • The Holiday Zone has a chain of gratitude idea that your teenager could do with guests on Thanksgiving.

Other activities for teenagers include:

  • Teens can cook the entire Thanksgiving meal.
  • They can create decorative place settings.
  • They can create a Thanksgiving Day scrapbook, or story book.
  • They could help younger family members to put on a play or concert for the Thanksgiving guests, making invitations and mailing them.

Shannon

Pets as Therapy

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November 8, 2008 | 2 Comments

I believe that animals can be very therapeutic, not just for children but for the entire family. I will be concentrating on cats in this post, but any animal can be therapeutic.

A few years ago, my daughters and I acquired three cats. We do not consider these cats pets. They are members of our family. They are very important to us, and are treated very well. Some would even claim that they are spoiled.

Cats are wonderful creatures. They are both playful and very loving. They are also great for telling secrets to. My daughter Skye, before she moved, used to tell her cat everything. Like he was a person. She’d talk and talk, and he would stay near her because he loved the attention. She will be bringing me two more kittens when she comes down on Monday, and will be taking her own cat (Zander) back up north with her. She is very excited to be able to finally have him go live with her, as she moved last December. He misses her as well.

I believe that the therapeutic advantages alone are good enough reason for each family to have a pet, but you have to match that pet to your household. If you are a family with a limited budget and limited time, a puppy is probably not the best choice for you. Also, small caged animals and fish do not generally have long lives, though their are likely exceptions to this. I suggest researching pets needs and life spans before adopting one.

If you have pets, how about sharing your experiences with them.

Shannon


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