Lunch and Dinner Ideas for Work, School and Trips

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September 3, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Most days, one of these meals will be what you are packing. Here are some recipes and ideas for you to try.

Shepherd’s Pie:

cook and mashed potatoes

1 can of corn, half the liquid drained

browned ground beef

  1. Put ground beef in the bottom of a baking dish.
  2. Spread the corn and liquid over the beef.
  3. Spread the potatoes over the corn.
  4. Bake until warmed through.

Refrigerate leftovers to be used for lunches.

NOTE: Feel free to mix things up a bit. Use a different meat or vegetable.

Easy Lasagna:

  1. Cook as many noodles as you need.
  2. Take out baking sheet and put 1/4 cup of water in it, then sauce.
  3. Layer the following ingredients until they are almost to the top. End with a cheese layer: Noodles, sauce, browned meet, cheese.
  4. Bake until cheese melts all the way through.
  5. Refrigerate the leftovers for the next day.

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  • When making pasta and sauce with meatballs, cook the pasta until just before done.
  • Be sure that you have all components of your meal: Protein, 2 fruits and/or veggies and grains. Some people also require dairy.
  • Pack a salad as a main meal, with cold chicken strips, sandwich meat slices and/or a hard boiled egg.
  • Make a variety of sandwiches so it never gets old eating them.
  • When packing beans, don’t forget to pack either bread, rolls or biscuits to go along with it.
  • Making pats of butter is easy: Simply cut them from stick butter and place in between small squares of wax paper (also reusable). You can place a bunch on a plate to keep int he refrigerator.
  • Or, just spoon some into a tiny container with a tight-fitting lid.

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Vegetable Soup:

1 regular size can condensed tomato soup, plus 1 can of water

1 small can of corn, drained

1 small can of carrots, drained

1 small zucchini, skin left on, sliced into rounds and each round cut into fourths

  • Dump can of soup into saucepan.
  • Add the can of water.
  • Add all of the vegetables.
  • Cook until everything is warmed through.
  • Refrigerate leftovers.
  • You can make a big, family size batch by using a family size can of soup and water, and by at least tripling the amounts of each vegetable.
  • Try a different vegetables each time you make this for more variety.

Shannon

PS.

For ideas on how to save money when packing for school, work or trips, as well as ideas on how to keep foods hot and cold, see the post Making Lunches and/or Dinners to Bring to Work under the category Money Matters.

Yes, children can be trained to bring home reusable items. And, they can learn to be environmentally friendly.

Making Lunches and/or Dinners to Bring to Work

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September 2, 2008 | Leave a Comment

With prices the way they are these days, we are all looking for ways to cut corners. One of the best ways that I can think of, for those who work outside the home, is to bring your own meals to work with you. This post will discuss ways in which you can do this.

  1. Be sure that you have the proper tools in which to pack your meals with. For instance, you will want a reusable lunch pack, a hot/cold thermos or two, and reusable containers in which to pack individual foods in. You will also want some cloth napkins, and perhaps a fabric place-mat. Reusable silverware is also important.
  2. Find some good leftover recipes. Anything that tastes good reheated or cold is the way to go.
  3. Learn to make different types of sandwiches.
  4. Make food from scratch whenever possible.
  5. Learn to make different types of trail mixes.
  6. Hot/cold thermoses will come in handy for many things. For cold items: Salads, milk and other beverages, and cold soups are but a few things that you will enjoy bringing to work with you. For hot items: lasagna, stews, soups, pasta and sauce with meatballs, shepherd’s pie, chili, beans, and the list goes on.
  7. Begin cooking for leftovers. Whenever you could dinner, cook enough to bring to work with you the next day. Whenever you make a dessert, pack a slice or a cookie away for lunch or dinner the next day.

How are you saving money by doing these things?

By reusing containers, napkins and such, you only have to purchase them once. If you keep track of everything, you will not likely have to purchaser them again.

By bringing your own food, you are drastically cutting your work expenses. Homemade foods are healthier than what you can order at any restaurant, so you are also saving on medical bills.

How much time will it take you to make your lunch to bring?

No time at all, really. The biggest task will be in heating your food in the morning and transferring it to the hot/cold thermos. A lot of things can even be packed the night before.

What If there is a microwave at work?

Well, if not too many people use it then you will save even more time and money here. You will not need a more expensive hot/cold thermos, for one thing. And, while you are putting away dinner the night before you go to work, you can simply put some into the reusable container that you will be bringing to work. Be sure, if using this method, that the container you are using is microwave safe.

For the rest of this week, I will be posting ideas and recipes for you to try when packing your meals for work.

Shannon

Rewarding Good Behaviour

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September 1, 2008 | Leave a Comment

My nephew spends a lot of time with me for various reasons: His mother works, goes to school full time, interns, and he doesn’t want to behave for her in general. His behaviour is usually pretty extreme, and he is hard to handle. He is staying here for a little while. He had a very bad weekend at home, and had to be brought back to me early. He did not like this at all, but does not have a choice.

I take that back, he does have a choice. He can choose to behave. He is almost eleven, and we are all working hard to change his behaviour before he becomes a teenager.

Dealing with his issues this past weekend suddenly made me think about my daughter, Zowie. She is the one who is still at home. She is basically a good kid, who has rarely ever given me any trouble.

This summer, she joined the Upward Bound Program, which is for college prep. She wants to go to college for Child Psychology, and is planning on ten extra years of school to accomplish her goals.

She studies hard, and has been studying for PSAT’s and SAT’s for the past week. She is sixteen, is homeschooled, and she takes Biology and Algebra at a neerby high school. She is very busy.

It also occurred to me that, with all of the studying she does, it will be hard on her having her cousin around. If he acts up, she will not be able to concentrate. Plus, it would be stressful for her even if he did not have behavioural issues.

I did some things for her this weekend:

  • I talked with sister #1, my nephews mother, and she said that Zowie could spend any weekends at her house that my nephew has to spend at home with me. While there, her other son can help her study for tests. Generally, my nephew goes home on the weekends. However, after the problems this weekend, we decided that he will not be going home next weekend. Zowie will be going there instead.
  • I talked to sister #2 and she agreed that, during the week, Zowie could go there any time to study or just to visit if she was unable to concentrate due to our nephews behaviour.
  • I bought her a snack size package of Oreos. I gave them to her and told her that I really appreciated her good behaviour. I thanked her as well. I gave her the cookies, and said these things to her, in front of my nephew so that he could see that good behaviour will be rewarded.

We, as single parents, have a tough job. Parenting is not always easy. We should all try to remember to reward good behaviour. Given the current circumstances, I am convinced that this is something that all parents should be doing on a regular basis.

Below are some ideas on how I may reward each child for good behaviour. What ideas can you come up with for your children? Feel free to post them here, as others may be able to use them as well.

Zowie (16):

  • Money to go to a matinee with her friends.
  • The privilege of going to social events with friends who live far away.
  • The privilege of visiting those friends for weekends and vacations.
  • I can bake her favorite dessert.
  • I can make special meals for her.
  • I can take her to the movies.
  • I can take her out to eat.

Nephew (11):

  • I can take him to a movie.
  • He can visit his mother.
  • He can talk to her on the phone every evening that he can behave.
  • A trip to the playground.
  • I can take him out to eat.
  • I can take him to the library.
  • I can have a picnic with him.

I hope these ideas help some of you.

Shannon

An Evening to Yourself

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August 29, 2008 | 2 Comments

How often do you get an evening to yourself? Once a week? A month? Once every few months?

Wondering what to do? Don’t want to go out? Want to just be alone and relax?

My favorite way to pamper myself on one of those rare evenings alone is to start off with a hot bath, usually with bubbles or powdered milk added. Now, I know that we are not supposed to take hot baths, but this is the only way that I can get my body to cooperate with me enough to relax.

After I soak in the tub, shave and wash my hair, I dry off slightly and then rub lotion all over so that my skin is very soft. I braid my hair, make a cup of tea, and settle into bed for  an evening of reading.

Simple? Yes. Cheap? Yes. It does not take a lot of time in preparation, or a lot of money, to create spa moments at home. Just a little imagination, and you will come up with many ideas for pampering yourself.

My challenge to you?

Pamper yourself the next time you have at least a couple of hours to yourself.

Shannon

I have a process that I use to get what we need for our family, our home and things to use as gifts. (This last is going to be another post.) I begin this process just before yard sale season begins.

  1. We go through all of our clothes, selling, giving away or donating all autumn/winter and spring/summer clothes that no longer fit us. Some items may be saved for rug making/quilt making in the future. (When my daughters were younger, Skye’s outgrown items would be put away for Zowie to grow into.)
  2. We list what we will need for an entire year. (I would do this a few years ahead when my girls were younger.) This includes clothing, coats, shoes/boots and accessories.
  3. We take inventory in each room of our home, to see what we need or would like to have.
  4. We also take inventory outside and in the shed.
  5. We consider any home improvement and craft projects that we would like to do.
  6. We list school and office supplies that we can always stock up on.

After this, I list the needed and wanted items on pages listed as follows:

  1. Mom’s Room
  2. Mom’s Clothes
  3. Skye’s Room
  4. Skye’s Clothes
  5. Zowie’s Room
  6. Zowie’s Clothes
  7. Bathroom
  8. Laundry Area/Hall
  9. Kitchen
  10. Livingroom
  11. Outside
  12. Shed
  13. Craft Projects
  14. Home Improvement Projects
  15. School/Office Needs
  16. Gifts - usually a list of what each person likes, favorite colors, sizes and ideas. Now we are doing family gifts instead of individual gifts.

I then decide on what I am willing to pay, putting that price next to each item. This is not what I will necessarily pay, as I will try to get it cheaper.

I keep these lists in a notebook, which I try to keep with me at all times. This helps me to keep my priorities straight. I also try to stick to the list, but I do sometimes pick up something that I know will be useful.

Here are a few examples of what I have picked up recently:

  • I have been looking for a particular kind of phone for a couple of years now. It is a cordless with answering machine, that comes with two extra phones and bases. The good thing about this particular phone is that it does not need three phone jacks in three different rooms. Just one, and an outlet for the two other phone bases. These are expensive to purchase at a store, but I got the whole set for $5.00 at a yard sale.
  • I have spent the last few years searching out attractive, well-made fencing sections (the short ones) for outlining the flower gardens. I can usually find these for $15.00 or more per section, but I need a lot of sections. While at a yard sale this past weekend, I noticed a lot of attractive, sturdy plastic fence sections. All matching. I asked the lady selling them how much she wanted for the whole bunch, and she told me that I could have them all for $1.00!!!! I was so excited over this.
  • I keep picking up books for .10-.50 each at yard sales. This is my cheap entertainment for the coming winter.

I hope that this is helpful for everyone.

Shannon

The Basics of Frugal Living

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August 28, 2008 | 1 Comment

On Living the Low-Income Life, I get many questions about how I actually go about living frugally. In all honesty, it is all written in the posts on the blog. In this article, I will condense it all down to my top ten basics of frugal living tips.

  1. Yard Sale. Do this only after figuring out everything that you need for each member of your family, and your home. Write it all down, and keep the list with you. (There is another post on this topic.)
  2. Use dollar stores for everything that you can, as well as clearance sales.
  3. Use homemade rags for cleaning, made from your old yucky looking kitchen and bathroom towels and cloths.
  4. Use cloth diapers and make your own baby food.
  5. Never buy paper towels, and only use cloth napkins.
  6. Keep your thermostat between 55* and 65* during the cold months.
  7. Cook frugally. (There is another post on this topic.)
  8. Buy at thrift stores, especially church ones.
  9. Always have a lot of blankets handy, as well as warm socks, slippers and robes, during the winter months.
  10. Do everything you can to lower your utility bills.

There are obviously many other things that you can do to live more frugally. Check out Living the Low-Income Life and other blogs and web sites for more ideas.

Shannon

The Basics of Frugal Cooking

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August 26, 2008 | 3 Comments

There are some basic things that we all need to know if we want to be able to cook frugally for our families. There are also varying degrees of frugality, depending on how healthy you intend to cook. I will cover both of these degrees in this article.

I would like to introduce you to my frugal top ten list:

  1. I use pasta a lot.
  2. I use rice a lot.
  3. I freeze all leftovers.
  4. My freezer has a container for leftover vegetables.
  5. My freezer has a container for leftover meats.
  6. My freezer has a container for fruit pieces.
  7. I love to make homemade bread items.
  8. I use mostly store brand items.
  9. I use coupons only when I will really save money.
  10. I purchase relatively few items in bulk; mainly baking needs.

I can do this with white, overly processed foods when I have to, but to make these steps healthier, I try to use as many whole grains as possibles. Not enriched white or wheat, but 100% whole wheat and grain items. I also use brown rice, cooked in vegetable stock, or liquid from cooking vegetables.

The Healthy Hillbilly Housewife is a great place to find affordable recipes, as is Frugal Recipes. You will find many frugal, healthy recipes at both sites that you can easily incorporate into your menu planning.

Shannon

Single Moms and Frugality

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August 25, 2008 | 4 Comments

It is very important for me to live a frugal life. I am sure that it is just as important for many of you to live frugally as it is for me. It is, for some of us, a way of life. This article has been put together for all of you as an introduction to a number of (near) future articles on living the single (and parental) life frugally. I know that it will be helpful to many of you.

That said, here are some links to wonderful blogs and web sites that have been created to help families that want (or need) to live frugally.

  1. Living the Low-Income Life: This is another blog that I created for the specific purpose of helping low-income families and individuals. You will find many ideas here, as well as a Create a Pantry Challenge and information on food preservation.
  2. Frugal Recipes: Also mine. Some of the recipes are child friendly. I recently posted useful lunch box ideas.
  3. Living on a Dime: You will find wonderful books and articles on this site that will be very helpful.
  4. Homemade Household Cleaners: Not only will this save you a lot of money, but it will also help you to provide a healthier environment for you to raise your children in.
  5. Healthy Hillbilly Housewife: This is an excellent site that I highly recommend.

The links above are the five best links that I have found (and created) at this point. I will let you know if I find any others. You will find some of the best advice available for living frugally through these links. I hope that you enjoy them.

Be on the lookout for further frugality articles on this blog, coming your way soon.

Shannon

Walking Photography

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August 20, 2008 | Leave a Comment

A great way to spend time as a family is during a walk. Not only are you hanging out together, but you are also getting exercise. So, how can you make a walk even better?

By photographing what you see along the way.

All members of your family, except for the youngest of children, can take part in this. Children will learn new photography skills as they get older and, if you are no photographer, they will likely be able to teach you a thing or two.

My daughters know more about using my digital camera than I do, but I am learning. If I don’t understand something, they can usually show me what to do.

Do you need a digital camera? No. Especially if your children are young. A 35 millimeter will do just fine.

If this idea appeals to you, then why not take walks along different paths each time. Then you can get an assortment of pictures.

You can go about the sharing of the camera in a couple of ways. You can all take turns on your walk, or you can take turns by one of you using the camera during each walk. For example, your son can be the photographer on Monday, your daughters can be on Tuesday, and you can be on Wednesday.

In a future post, I will tell you what you can do with the pictures that your family takes.

Family Game Time

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August 20, 2008 | Leave a Comment

Over the years, we have played many games together. Sometimes the players have been my daughters and I, and other times we have had company.

Children generally love to play games, and it is a good idea to have an assortment for them to choose from.

When my daughters were little, we would play different games than we do now. Children learn new skills each time you intorduce a new game to them, whether you are playing board games, card games, or another type of game.

These games have been our favorites at different ages.

Babies/Toddlers:

Peek-A-Boo

Patty Cake

Young Children:

Puppet Shows

Chutes and Ladders

Memory Games

Go Fish

Charades

Kindergarten and Up:

War (card game)

UNO

SkipBo

Monopoly

Life

The Ungame

Scrabble

Checkers

Pictionary

Middle School to Adult:

Boggle

Who Wants to be a Millionaire

Mystery at Hogwarts

Rummy

Tri Bond

Mad Gab

Trivial Pursuit

Jeopardy (homemade version)

Let’s Make a Deal

***Different children will learn new skills at different rates. Only you can judge what games your child is ready for.


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